Sunday, August 27, 2006
My husband and I have professions at opposite ends of the healthcare spectrum. He is in the medical field. I am in the alternative healthcare field. When we first married, my husband would accompany me to the conferences that I was interested in, but I would be disappointed when he didn’t enjoy them too. I would attend his medical conferences with him, but I did not resonate with the medical point of view, which disappointed him. We were clearly at odds and often at war over our opposing points of view.
The solution, we came to learn, was simply acceptance and RESPECT for the other person’s choice. I have great RESPECT for my husband’s expertise in the medical profession. He has great RESPECT for my expertise in the alternative approach to healing. Now, I attend the conferences that interest me without him and vice versa.
If you are going to dance your life, you must develop RESPECT for people’s choices, rather than put energy into trying to get them to switch to your choices. I’ve tried it. It does not build and support a loving relationship.
If you follow my blog, I will reveal to you all the attitudes necessary to practice and master so you too can say, “Life is good. All is well. I am happy.”
Yes, I know plenty about the single life. I was single for 12 years before I met my current husband. I have some suggestions for you, but I need to know your gender. The trend today is for people to take better care of themselves so that in their 60's, with children grown and careers established, they can really enjoy life.
In all the world, there is a perfect match for you. Be in the world, showing up here and there, so you can bump into her/him.
Do you love life? A love of life gives one the energy and spark to be attractive to a prospective partner. What things do you love? Do you love yourself? When you become the person you want to be with, that person shows up, in my experience.
Men and women are very different which is why I needed to know your gender. A woman has to put her best self out in the world so she can be found. Like a magnet, a man is drawn to the woman of his dreams when he sees her if he is a mature man and not an immature boy, of which there are many.
When you are ready for a mate, go where the men are. Allow yourself to be seen. The Universe will make the connection. That you have no children and no career may be a plus for the man you will match with.
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